Before you take any of my advice, do yourself a favor and actually look at our elopement first. Seriously. Make sure this kind of chaos‑but‑somehow‑still‑organized energy is something you’d even want. I’m not here pretending to be an expert — I just survived planning an elopement in under two months, kept it a secret, and then dropped the news at Thanksgiving dinner like it was a side dish. If that sounds like your speed, great. If not, at least you’ll know before you start taking notes.
Della D. 